Have you ever been so caught up in this worlds chaos that the little things(like your kids) get lost in it all.
I don't know why but I'm constantly forgetting all the little things in life that make me, ME. Especially my babies.
I forget their ages and that sometimes all they want is to play, with me. They want Mami to go outside and watch them ride their scooter, or read them a book, and just enjoy their company. Many, Many times I get frustrated that I don't have enough time in the day and that they'll understand if Mami can't.
In reality the more I say no, the less often their going to ask me. And the day they don't ask, well that will be a sad day.
So what's 5 minutes to a child vs an adult? To an adult it means nothing or maybe it means that their that many minutes late, or need that many more as an excuse to get their kids off their back. And to a child it can mean the world. To them it may mean that many minutes they get to have your undivided attention. That many more minutes they could be hearing your voice as you read them their favorite story, that many minutes it takes their hearts to fill with a joy unimaginable to our selfishness.
I'm not a perfect parent, actually far from it, but if that 5 minutes can make them happy and can show them I love them and want to be there for them then why not? Why not give them that joy? Why not be the parents they want and need, to see that glimpse of greatness from a Mami or Daddy they hold so dear, that they love so much?
I know I don't ever want them to feel like Mami doesn't love them, or that I'm to busy for them. So I stand up today and I will try my best to give them that little time that may mean the world to them.
Whether it be 5 minutes or 30, make a change that will give your kids happiness and joy and the thrill of being a family. Take that time to truly enjoy what little things will do for you and for them. Show them that they're just as important as washing a dish or folding the laundry. Maybe even include them in your household duties, they'll surprise you every time.
I'm starting at 10 minutes and I'm sure it will grow into so much more...
What will you do?
Rita, you are dead on this. We can get caught up in thinking "I've did all the chores, cooked the meals, helped the kids with school," and forget quality time. Thanks so much for the post. God bless.
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